1. Trinas make donators get items too easy beacuse it gives too big advantage to donators. Thus it should be droppable from some mob (not an easy one but some hard one, maeby boss).
2. Who gives a shit what happened with ppls money? Retards are those that pay for a friggin private server and complain later that they lost their money.. You buy smth you get smth.. u cant be promised it'll be for forever.. every private closes someday. Also look at MYKO. They had prolly like few thousand playes that bought premiums and PUS items but did they give money back?