yeah i gotta agree people say exp is boring, but its a great way to meet people chat with them etc, that why most private servers a boring,
its basically log in exp atleast 3 days for max lvl, get gear in atleast 1-2 days and pk. almost nothing happens during that time.
i think xp should be close to ko exp rate but a bit higher.
The harder the exp the more lively private servers are like sir said, after hitting cap all you got is running through bowl in circles till you get bored and log out.
Exp quests will be created to help with all the lvling.