this is my ardream build:
fov+2(dual) for def +res
str earrings 16/3
i play on ares server where 2/3 sins have shard+9 and i never needed the ib or d+6 helm
def/hp/ap is definitely more imp than a couple extra dd points.
ps. i have used every 2h wep available for ardy up to rappy+10rev and ms+9 owns over all others