Accusing a 50 year old dude of being mentally challenged and sad for playing videogames is retarded. Thats the dream, you work hard, make money, provide for your kids, and then chill out and do what you want. I have had a lot of fun playing this game but with university, girlfriend, work, concerts, parties, trips, vacations, college/family/work/univeristy reunions, random friends showing at your house, etc, etc, etc. There is no way I would have been able to play a server for 5 years and be on top. Im not saying there is something wrong with me or you, to each its own you know ? Whatever makes you happy is ok.
So yeah, when im 50 - 60 years old I will be, hopefully, surfing on a long ass longboard in the day and playing video games at night. Since I will have a lot less on my plate, a lot more free time. As I see things, its better to waste time playing video games when im 50 - 60 and have no more responsabilities.