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    Well.. i met this girl in a club... like..3-4 weeks ago.. she came up to me and started talking to me then we started kissing blah blah.. she asked me.. do u just want to have fun (touchy) with me or u want something more.. i was like.. 'i like you... i would go for whatever u want' blah blah just saying shit to make her cooperate

    In like 3 months im leaving to another city so i didnt want to get into any serious relationship, i only wanted FUN. This girl agreed to it bcuz i will leave soon.. but she didnt really feel ok with it*so*she*told*me*if*in*this*month*she*wanted*to*b e*my*GF*what*would*i*say,*i*said..*hmm..*sure...

    Like 1 week ago she told me something that was like.. telling me that she wanted to be my GF, besides she told me before.. if we arent boyfriends we wont have more fun... we wont have sex and touch each other 'deeper' (u know what i mean). So i just told her, wanna be my gf? she was like 'yes!! u were taking a long time to ask me!'. Everything was fine till i started feeling like.. i dont know she is sweet and cool but she isnt like very feminine and sexy (sexy as in way of acting moving etc, she is ok and she isnt fat lol.).. and that bothers me..

    I dont know what to do, today i got to a point in wich i gotta decide if.. to PRETEND as if everything was cool just to have fun (even if i wont really be happy and have to wait like a month to have sex with her..) or just talk to her. If i talk to her i would tell her that i feel that we dont really connect and that i really didnt want to have a serious relationship because im leaving soon blah blah but i did it cuz i didnt want to make her feel sad and i was feelling like with pressure..


    Any thoughts? help me out guys ;<

    I asked 2 friends for advice and this is what they told me:

    a) You should find a girl u really like and start hitting on her and if it works out, you tell this girl bb (nicely) and hook up with this other girl.

    b ) Just finish the relationship.

    But what do you guys think?

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    Fuck that bitch one more time and dump her ass!

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    lol

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    Fuck that bitch one more time and dump her ass![/b]
    roflmao

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    for me relationship with abig distance didnt work, and its actually pretty hard.

    especially if u LOVED that girl. had a bad year because of that.

    after finishing the relationship, i fuked a whore and everything was ok again

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    The solid base of any kind of relationship is: Mutual respect, honesty and trust. I think u should tell her what u think about the relationship and how u feel. Bullshit never helped any1, so my advice to you is: be truthfull to this girl ( she should be a friend first of all ) and see where it leads. Respect her ( and urself ) be honest to her ( and urself ).
    Do that and in the end of the day, w/e the situation is, u&#39;ll know u did the right thing --> It feels good

    p.s -> Getting laid isn&#39;t everything in life

    (not flaming any1, just my 2 cents on this ^^)

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    listen to your hearth and not to other ppl

    do what u think its best for u jong grashopper :P

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    Finish... It&#39;s better to be honest and tell her what you think than to do something you don&#39;t really feel like doing, and basically fooling her. Might be harsh for her but it&#39;s for the best in the end.

    Imo it&#39;s the kind of feeling you want something untill you can have it, then you&#39;re like... oh, it has some downsides.
    Same thing happens to me all the time. Instinct of a man.

    Good luck with that. ;-)

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    pointless... erased.

    u can lead a horse to the water, but ya can&#39;t make it drink.

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    if she aint sexy why u still seeing her?

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    This is how women work.

    Next she&#39;ll want to move in with you.

    Then she will start changing things in your home to give it that womans touch

    Next she will want a joint bank account

    Then she&#39;ll want to talk about marriage

    Then she will put on weight

    Then she will ask "do you still find me attractive"

    Then you will devorce

    Then she will take half of everything you own

    CAN YOU RISK THIS HAPPENING?

    at the end of the end of the day she will well and truley fuck you!

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    This is how women work.

    Next she&#39;ll want to move in with you.

    Then she will start changing things in your home to give it that womans touch

    Next she will want a joint bank account

    Then she&#39;ll want to talk about marriage

    Then she will put on weight

    Then she will ask "do you still find me attractive"

    Then you will devorce

    Then she will take half of everything you own

    CAN YOU RISK THIS HAPPENING?

    at the end of the end of the day she will well and truley fuck you![/b]
    I don&#39;t think it&#39;s gonna go that far.. isnt Rice like 16?

    I do find it hilarious that people ask for advice on a KO forum and to read people responds to the topics, when half of them havent even been outside in the past 60 days.

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    I don&#39;t think it&#39;s gonna go that far.. isnt Rice like 16?[/b]
    my parent were 17/18 when they married
    18/19 when i was born Oo

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    my parent were 17/18 when they married
    18/19 when i was born Oo[/b]

    Yeah, but Rice isnt from a 3rd world country (i think? :x), unlike you and or your parents, cause it seems to me that like in some other african countries, the parents decide who the daughter/son marries when they turn 18.

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