Well.. i met this girl in a club... like..3-4 weeks ago.. she came up to me and started talking to me then we started kissing blah blah.. she asked me.. do u just want to have fun (touchy) with me or u want something more.. i was like.. 'i like you... i would go for whatever u want' blah blah just saying shit to make her cooperate
In like 3 months im leaving to another city so i didnt want to get into any serious relationship, i only wanted FUN. This girl agreed to it bcuz i will leave soon.. but she didnt really feel ok with it*so*she*told*me*if*in*this*month*she*wanted*to*b e*my*GF*what*would*i*say,*i*said..*hmm..*sure...
Like 1 week ago she told me something that was like.. telling me that she wanted to be my GF, besides she told me before.. if we arent boyfriends we wont have more fun... we wont have sex and touch each other 'deeper' (u know what i mean). So i just told her, wanna be my gf? she was like 'yes!! u were taking a long time to ask me!'. Everything was fine till i started feeling like.. i dont know she is sweet and cool but she isnt like very feminine and sexy (sexy as in way of acting moving etc, she is ok and she isnt fat lol.).. and that bothers me..
I dont know what to do, today i got to a point in wich i gotta decide if.. to PRETEND as if everything was cool just to have fun (even if i wont really be happy and have to wait like a month to have sex with her..) or just talk to her. If i talk to her i would tell her that i feel that we dont really connect and that i really didnt want to have a serious relationship because im leaving soon blah blah but i did it cuz i didnt want to make her feel sad and i was feelling like with pressure..
Any thoughts? help me out guys ;<
I asked 2 friends for advice and this is what they told me:
a) You should find a girl u really like and start hitting on her and if it works out, you tell this girl bb (nicely) and hook up with this other girl.
b ) Just finish the relationship.
But what do you guys think?
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