I am coming to this forum here, where I know many people check constantly, and I think I can get many suggestions on what to do here. Please take my issue seriouslly.
Let me start with my story then i'll take your responses into consideration.
I have gone to school with this girl(rachel) since 8th grade(both seniors now). At the time I wasnt into girls and all that because I was still young. We have been friends since and I never got the feeling that she really "liked me." I have had other girfriends since then, but I cant find anyone that means the same as she means to me.
Now that I have decided to say something and man up, she has started "dating" someone, one of my best friends. I currently am seeing this girl, but no one will be like Rachel. I dont know what to do now, ive told my friend about, and hes like "what do u expect me to do now?" I have told me best friend how I feel about her(rachel) and he is like well "what i am suppose to do now, ive always had the feelin u stil liked her". hes like "well not to me an ass but how am I expected to respond to this." I told him if they like each other-do so. He responded with, "thanks for the permission..not like i need it though. ttyl " another friend of mine says that he shouldnt be dick like that and that he should be a little more understanding because telling him had to be the toughest thing ever. He as well as everyone that knows me, is aware that I have always liked her, even though i was never open about it to everyone. Him and her are like total oppisites, they hate doing the same stuff, and im not just saying that because im mad, but because they both have mentioned it to me. Her and i went on grad nite the other night(every senior in the state of florida goes to disneyworld for 1 night, till 4am to party) and we were flirty with each other from the get go. we held arms and hands(like bf+gf) but didnt realize it at times. early in the night she mentioned "what happens here, stays here 2nite". so she finds me attractive enough to do shit with that night, but didnt want anyone else to find out(im assuming my bestfriend-whos shes kind of seeing and others). i texted her telling her how i feel about her but havent heard back from her yet. i dont know whether to ask her out, and tell her in person(assuming she'll agree to hang out). or try to handle the issue in another manner. I dont know how to resolve this, and I am turning to the ko4life community to help me. No dick responses and no flaming. Thank you.
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