So my girl =] or my WIFE?!

[mdeac48]

Hello world. KO4life members.

How are you?, I'm very good. =]
Okay, my girl left about 7 months ago my ex girlfriend went to Mexico to pursue a career in pediatric doctoring for babies.
She does 2 years in Mexico and the rest is in the United States. So she was telling me she will make $100,000 - $150,000 a year!
So, she told me she still loved me, and I was astonished, knowing we went out for almost a year.
I've had some problems in my life that got me in trouble and shit, but I'm thnking about cleaning it up. (my life)
Which means doing the following; Doing well in school, and staying out of trouble with the law.
SO what do you guys think? Should I make her my wife? Cuz I still got some feeling for her.

AND THE FACT SHE WILL BE MAKING OVER $100k a year. WOOT?

Edit: im 16 and she's 16.[/b]

Several problems here.

First, no one goes to Mexico for medical school or nursing school, especially for newborn related medicine.

Second, a medical degree and that $100k+ job comes after 4 years of college (which you need a great GPA from), 4 years of medical school (which is about 10x harder than college), 3-5 years of residency (which usually makes you move and is more competitive than south american soccer), and usually 1 year of fellowship.

Third, such a process involves $100k+ in student loan debt if you get in-state tuition (out of state, private, or foreign means you can basically double it).

Fourth, you are both 16, you don't know what the hell you want, you are both still kids. No bull shit about 'she's the one' or 'no one has ever felt this way' blah blah blah. You don't understand relationships, marriage, love, time, life, commitment, or what it takes to live in the real world. You both (and everyone else at that age) are idiots who don't understand crap.

Fifth, you're trying to be a male whore. A doctor only makes a good sugar mama when she is already making the money, not while she's working 80+ hours a week making $40k with $200k in student loans hanging over her head.

Sixth, $100k is a low salary for a doctor, find a specialist, they start at $225k+ right after residency.

Seventh, thinking about cleaning up your life isn't the same as actually doing it. Try changing yourself first, then see how you feel.

[TripleOG4life]

Several problems here.

First, no one goes to Mexico for medical school or nursing school, especially for newborn related medicine.

Second, a medical degree and that $100k+ job comes after 4 years of college (which you need a great GPA from), 4 years of medical school (which is about 10x harder than college), 3-5 years of residency (which usually makes you move and is more competitive than south american soccer), and usually 1 year of fellowship.

Third, such a process involves $100k+ in student loan debt if you get in-state tuition (out of state, private, or foreign means you can basically double it).

Fourth, you are both 16, you don't know what the hell you want, you are both still kids. No bull shit about 'she's the one' or 'no one has ever felt this way' blah blah blah. You don't understand relationships, marriage, love, time, life, commitment, or what it takes to live in the real world. You both (and everyone else at that age) are idiots who don't understand crap.

Fifth, you're trying to be a male whore. A doctor only makes a good sugar mama when she is already making the money, not while she's working 80+ hours a week making $40k with $200k in student loans hanging over her head.

Sixth, $100k is a low salary for a doctor, find a specialist, they start at $225k+ right after residency.

Seventh, thinking about cleaning up your life isn't the same as actually doing it. Try changing yourself first, then see how you feel.[/b]

YOU JUST GOT SERVED SON.

ok but seriously one of the best post I've seen on these stupid forums.

You're way too immature to even think about marriage. Marriage isn't something you just jump into. You have to be with her in a serious relationship and live with her for a while so you know what you're really getting into before you even think about marrying her. Also, marriage isn't about how much money she might be making AFTER her studies or how you get butterflies in your stomach when you think about her -_-.

I usually dislike it when people post personal stuff on ko4life, but after seeing these comment I'm glad you made this topic and I hope you listen to them for your own good.

[festo]

This may sound blunt but... Why do you have to ask other people this????

Your still 16?!?! She would have to be mid 20's to even think about earning that kinda salary.... Ive been with my gf since i was 18/19, shes heading for a first in law but she wont start earning the big money for 5-10 years... Money isn't everything you know?!?!

[Luigi]

Money isn't everything you know?!?![/b]

Yes, but one can buy pussies and beer for that money...

[Iyegamer]

You better be kiddin Plodez :angry:[/b]

Lol, commitment in the kitchen and good activity in the bedroom is good MrsOwnage.

A women good in the kitchen shows a certain dedication, and to me a sense of ready-for-family/kids certificate. In essence shows maturity and commitment. (probably made bunch of ppl rofl but nyways)

Well bedroom activity....thats what ur gonna do all the time right after marriage *giggles*

[Palan]

It´s not possible to make that much money for a regular 16years old girl whit clothes on :P

[MrsOwnage]

Lol, commitment in the kitchen and good activity in the bedroom is good MrsOwnage.

A women good in the kitchen shows a certain dedication, and to me a sense of ready-for-family/kids certificate. In essence shows maturity and commitment. (probably made bunch of ppl rofl but nyways)

Well bedroom activity....thats what ur gonna do all the time right after marriage *giggles*[/b]

We can do alot more stuff then just cook and have sex ya know?

[side2side125]

are you stupid you can't decide for life like this at 16 :S

[Avariofvalequenta]

live together, dont get married at least in 2 years lol[/b]

+1 seriously, live together first for about 2 years, see how life "would" be like living together. Marriage is a life long commitment and you have to be fully prepared for it. I thought I was going to marry this girl and I was crazy about her, even went out to look at rings, but then we moved in together and I saw how it would be like. WOW. Anyway, ya 16 is too young, enjoy life right now, and if it is meant to be then it will happen when the time is right.

[Iyegamer]

We can do alot more stuff then just cook and have sex ya know?[/b]

Ofc but thats what interests most men xD Well those are core basics...I'm sure if your good at both ur bf/husband would be a happier guy! To some even the latter one would be enough. Then in the long run everything matters even placing the washing sponge back in its place not on the shower floor...just an example...drives me nuts

Back to topic...Dnt marry just yet, get to know her better. Its one of the most important decisions u'll ever make. If you thought abt it, think abt it again, and again and again...until a blood clot gets stuck in ur brain or something...or until you dnt have any 'what if'-s remaining in ur head. To get there i guess you have to settle down and get ur life back to a normalised and relaxed state (best time to take decisions).

Q e.g.: What if her practice gets disrupted, can I be able to sustain a family with a kid?

I say living together is a must for a year or so before marrying some1.

Marry her at 23-24, she won't leave ya if she loves you, at around that age your lives would have reached a plateau, maybe both having a job, nice some of money for a nice wedding, a house where to live etc...

[MrsOwnage]

Ofc but thats what interests most men xD Well those are core basics...I'm sure if your good at both ur bf/husband would be a happier guy! To some even the latter one would be enough. Then in the long run everything matters even placing the washing sponge back in its place not on the shower floor...just an example...drives me nuts

Back to topic...Dnt marry just yet, get to know her better. Its one of the most important decisions u'll ever make. If you thought abt it, think abt it again, and again and again...until a blood clot gets stuck in ur brain or something...or until you dnt have any 'what if'-s remaining in ur head. To get there i guess you have to settle down and get ur life back to a normalised and relaxed state (best time to take decisions).

Q e.g.: What if her practice gets disrupted, can I be able to sustain a family with a kid?

I say living together is a must for a year or so before marrying some1.

Marry her at 23-24, she won't leave ya if she loves you, at around that age your lives would have reached a plateau, maybe both having a job, nice some of money for a nice wedding, a house where to live etc...[/b]

Aha I see your point. Very honest man, I like you. :P

[deathbob]

lmao
well bro its not really about the age
and ur 16 and shit witch means u guys pretty much met when u were 14 - 15
so garuntee u havent slept with that meny girls lol
least get out their befor getting onegina disease[/b]

I actually agree with this except for the last statement. Remember herpes is the gift that keeps on giving(because their is only treatments not cures, thank god for valtrex) Dont be a fool always wrap your tool.

ur gonna believe a 16 year old on how much theyre gonna be making in at least 4+ years from now? really? seriously?


u are by far one of the most pathetic people ive ever had the disgrace to encounter[/b]

You really havent met many people in this world. He actually makes a very good point in that the gentlemen who made this topic is not probably experienced in very many worldly things. Go out see what makes you happy in this world. I hate to use this example but you dont buy a car before you test drive it. The reason i say that is you need to know what your getting yourself to.

After talking with older couples some of their biggest regrets were that they never had a chance to shop around and stuck with one individual for their lives. They didnt stay out of love but out of necessity, or dependance on that other person always being their. Im not saying that's always true, If your very lucky it's not. The biggest thing was alway's remembering that you had to be happy with yourself before you could ever be happy with anyone else.

It really is funny to think that people cant understand why the divorce rate in at least the US has sky rocketed. I really like Iye's explanation on the kitchen use and loyalty, also about compatibility after the lust has wore off it is so very easy to lose interest in that special someone. These simple joys and pet peeve's can sometimes push people over the edge meaning sometimes love just aint enough.

[griml2eaper]

ur gonna believe a 16 year old on how much theyre gonna be making in at least 4+ years from now? really? seriously?
u are by far one of the most pathetic people ive ever had the disgrace to encounter[/b]

ty
but no

+1 cama, +fuckingone

weather you love her or not, people change, and so does your feelings towards one another. who knows from 1-2 years from now you might be looking back on yourself and say "wtf was i thinking" i know i did, and im glad i waited.[/b]

ok bro for real ur going to look back and be like wtf!? i missed my teen years u only get it once
and to get married so young its fucked

I actually agree with this except for the last statement. Remember herpes is the gift that keeps on giving(because their is only treatments not cures, thank god for valtrex) Dont be a fool always wrap your tool.
You really havent met many people in this world. He actually makes a very good point in that the gentlemen who made this topic is not probably experienced in very many worldly things. Go out see what makes you happy in this world. I hate to use this example but you dont buy a car before you test drive it. The reason i say that is you need to know what your getting yourself to.

After talking with older couples some of their biggest regrets were that they never had a chance to shop around and stuck with one individual for their lives. They didnt stay out of love but out of necessity, or dependance on that other person always being their. Im not saying that's always true, If your very lucky it's not. The biggest thing was alway's remembering that you had to be happy with yourself before you could ever be happy with anyone else.

It really is funny to think that people cant understand why the divorce rate in at least the US has sky rocketed. I really like Iye's explanation on the kitchen use and loyalty, also about compatibility after the lust has wore off it is so very easy to lose interest in that special someone. These simple joys and pet peeve's can sometimes push people over the edge meaning sometimes love just aint enough.[/b]

i was joking about onegina disease didnt think them 2 would take so serious
all i was trying to get accross was that he young and you cant really say you love her cuz u havent exsperianced enough girls to say ur in "love"

[AngelCleric]

ty
but no

ok bro for real ur going to look back and be like wtf!? i missed my teen years u only get it once
and to get married so young its fucked
i was joking about onegina disease didnt think them 2 would take so serious
all i was trying to get accross was that he young and you cant really say you love her cuz u havent exsperianced enough girls to say ur in "love"[/b]

arent you like 14 years old?

[crackurbak]

100K A YEAR?!?

OH FUCK YES, ARE YOU HIGH?