WARNING-if shes giving you one word answers...either shes not feeling you, or shes bored...or both...switch your formula or just give up
STAY AWAY FROM:
-shit that interests you (cars,video games,sports,computers,other females,etc)
-Religion (you dont know her stand on this subject..too taboo)
-Sex (see "religion")
-negative shit (death,sadness,failure,fucked up shit,etc)
Things To Talk about
:
-shit that interests her (ask her about her favorite artists,movies,etc)
-talk about things that will get her talking for most of the convo (any siblings?, hows school, hows work?, what are her plans this summer, her plans in life in general?, does she have any places she dreams of visiting)
-be funny/witty/clever...but dont joke TOO much or she wont take you serious
overall..talk about things that you KNOW she'll go on and on about...girls always say they want a guy to talk to...people in general would like ppl to talk to..truth is though, they just want good listeners..get her to do all the talking and just listen in because she may test your knowledge in the future..if u find urself talking about urself and u can see shes getting bored..switch it up, say "enough about me though, what about you?"...give her as few details about urself as possible..women like mystery...and..be clever and funny..but dont do it to the point where u make a joke out of every single thing she says...to break it down even FURTHER
-be funny on occassion
-be open minded (if she says something you dont like dont flip on her, this isnt RN...opinions are respected in real life)
-be a good listener
Signs shes interested:
-she smiles a lot
-plays with her hair
-laughs
-tries to make her voice sound like yours (mimicking is a huge body language sign..if u find her copying shit you do, such as looking at your watch, rubbing your arm, etc...thats great)
-gives u a bj
overtalk and u'll end up in friend zone[/b]
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