YourKO launched without problems. I think Reign of Kronos launched without any problems and had no lag even with constant DDoS.Which private project doesnt have this kind of issues on launch though ? I know nothing of coding and shit but if it happens to everyone, if it has happened every single time, its rather naive to think this one time it will be fine. I lived that dream in Legacy, but it turned into a nightmare.
In my humble opinion, its best to say as little as possible, we tried to keep everyone informed as best and often as we could and it eventually ended instigating more flaming and complains. I think its rather smart to withhold updating untill he has good news to share.
My point is that if people signed to play this server, they signed up for the tough launch.
About DDOS claims/accusations that some people like to bring up, remember when YourKo didnt exist ? Remember how shit was the same ? Before server owners could blame DDOS and YourKo, private server launches where allways tough. I could list all launches that I have plaid and not a single one went smooth.
If people want to suck it up and be in front of monitor all day, at least watch a movie or something, dont stress yourself more than you allready are. Take a chill pill, wait it out. Like in all servers, better things are to come.